Struggling with the wedding expenses isn’t uncommon – in fact, almost 93% of couples have to borrow the funds from a parent. If you find yourself in this group, you may be pulling out your hair at this very moment trying to figure out your money situation, or lack thereof. Unfortunately, there is no foolproof plan when it comes to the wedding budget; however, there are things you can do in order to still have the event of your dreams.

Trimming Costs
First of all, you’re not responsible for paying for relative’s hotel rooms, plane tickets, or any other expense not directly related to your wedding. Your only job is to make the costs as affordable as possible. This may entail setting up group rates with an airline and blocking rooms at a few hotels near the ceremony and reception venue. Consider asking friends who live in town if they can board a few guests for the weekend. If you can afford it, schedule a few parties and get-togethers around the wedding in order to alleviate the financial stress on those travelling.

The Bridal Party Attire
You’re also not required to pay for the bridesmaid dresses. The responsibility of the bridal party attire falls solely the bridesmaids and groomsmen. If you have enough money to spare, helping bridal party attendants pay for their gown or tuxedo is simply a nice gesture.

Dealing with Unbalanced Finances
Sometimes a problem arises when one person in the relationship makes more than the other. If you’re the bride and bringing home more money than the groom, you may find some difficulty in managing the cost. It’s never an easy thing for the man to make less than the woman, especially when it comes to the biggest step of the entire relationship. If you find yourself in this situation, sit down with your significant other and suggest a joint bank account. This will help him feel just as involved and will be a good way to begin your new life together.

Handling the In-Laws
Dealing with the in-laws when it comes to money matters can be difficult. Word of advice: let your significant other handle his/her own parents. If you’re the bride and trying to meet your soon-to-be mother-in-law’s high expectations, you may be in over your head. The best thing to do is to let the groom speak to his parents on his own. Let him ask if they are planning on contributing, and if so, how much and for what aspects of the wedding. Make sure that you let them know that even though they are making a donation that the wedding is still under your control. Never feel as though you need to compromise your own tastes just to make the wedding work – there’s always other ways to obtain the necessary finances.