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By Georgina Clatworthy

A destination wedding is a dream for many couples and a good way of having a luxurious wedding for less than having one at home. But when you embark on your destination wedding planning make sure you do not fall into the same trap that many couples do, which could see them spending more than if they had stayed at home.


Imagine getting married on a sunset beach or in beautiful tropical gardens. With a destination wedding you usually purchase an all-inclusive package with a tour operator which will include everything your destination wedding planning requires. Many couples choose to take just a select few guests along with them, close family and friends, to share the special day.



Destination wedding packages are usually much cheaper than planning a wedding at home and paying for each individual element. However, the trouble with a destination wedding is that many couples tend to fall into the trap of planning a second party when they return home and this can cost them a fortune!


The trouble with getting married abroad is that not everyone is able to come with you but still want to celebrate the wedding with you when you get back. To avoid upsetting anyone or putting noses out of joint, many couples will plan a big party when they get back for all those who couldn’t be there originally.


The upshot of this is you end up planning a lavish party for 100 plus guests complete with food, drink, entertainment, decorations, wedding favors and cake! Many even include the traditional speeches, first dance and associated customs. So you end up planning two weddings in effect and at a vastly increased cost over what you would have spent had you stayed at home in the first place!


So how to avoid the destination wedding trap?


If you want the big party to celebrate your wedding then simply accept it and have your wedding at home. Your ceremony can still be low key and intimate but you will save money by having everyone at your reception. Alternatively and if you are being ‘guilt tripped’ into having another party when you get back then organize a weekend at home where you can spend a minimal amount on food and drink and simply throw open your doors to all those want to come and share a glass of champagne with you.
It is worth remembering that if you want a quiet destination wedding then that is what you should have!