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By Jason Hennessey



After the man has popped the question and the lady has agreed, excitement is bound to come in due to the importance of the decision made for you two to spend your lives together. Engagement ceremonies in many cultures and traditions may come with a number of rituals and other customary practices, but this should not be cause for you not to have fun. There is however a lot of questions that have been asked about engagement parties below, we have provided the answers and extra tips that will make the day a success.

Why hold an engagement party?
Many people may assume that the decision of you two wanting to get married is between the two of you alone. This party will enable you to celebrate the loving decision with your loved ones. It can also be used to introduce the two families to each other and give them a chance to bond and interact.

Is it a must?
In many communities, engagements are taken seriously and their celebration is usually mandatory, with some having engagement periods that run for several months. There may be some customary practices and rituals that need to be performed on this day. However if this does not apply in your cases, then you are free to announce the big date on a newspaper or other media.

Who will host the party?
In many communities and cultures, it is the brides’ that have the responsibility of hosting the party. This was because the grooms’ were expected to go and ‘request’ for the lady to be married by their son. However in recent times, things have changed and the either of the couple, or even their parents can play host.

What’s the right size and style for the party?
This will largely depend on your budget, preference and style, which can be formal of casual. However, you should not be compelled to invite a lot of people as in a wedding party. You can make it a family affair, allowing in a few friends to spice up the event.

Will we send invitations?
Yes of course. They will help the guests with the important details such as date, time, and dress code. You can also use the invitations to let them know if they can bring gifts and how to make their reservations.

Can it be a surprise?
Surprises involving good events are always good. Care should be taken incase the intended does not accept and this can be embarrassing.

What about gifts and favors?
The gifts are not a must and guests should be allowed to decide whether to bring them or not, since many of them are likely to attend your wedding. Gifts can however add a nice touch to the event. You can also give inexpensive but functional favors in return.

You may also spice up things by sharing details with guests on how you met, receive marriage advice from guests and show some of your photos. You may also present gifts to each other, to your parents, and even take the opportunity to announce the wedding date.