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By Jason Hennessey



1) Sincerity

It is critical for the thoughts of the person to be convincingly real and forthright otherwise everything will look like a joke therefore embarrassing yourself.

2) Summarize the many notions

There are so many things that are running through our heads at that particular time and so it is very essential to note them down because not everything is flowing through your head in an adrenaline rush will be worth saying; so doing this will help you know what you want to be said first and not the inverse.

3) Modesty

It is good to appear thankful and mindful of the presence of the parents who made an effort in making the better part of your long life partner to be by mentioning a few sweet words about them and continuing; that way they fill appreciated in your special moment.

4) Assigning pitch variations in your voice

This helps to ease the tension that’s in you and everyone around you. So it is wise to start in a high and controlled tone so that you don’t sound off key and also in a jovial mood to make yourself relax in the process and varying your voice can assist you in getting your points being noted vividly.

5) Try creating a picture of the future

By doing this it will help you in maintaining you in the mood of saying those vows and making sure your mind don’t meander about therefore leaving you speechless at the critical moment.

6) Practising saying the vows

You know the adage that says practice makes perfect. This is because the constant memorizing of the same words over and over creates a remembrance in your mind even if you get stuck at some stage and therefore it will help you through those awkward moments of silence.

7) Having a short summarized note with you

This is very vital on that “Big Event Day”, why you may ask? This is because not all of us have the same potential and therefore some of us can have it within in us in seconds and some of us may need some reminders to help us’ that is why we need to jot down a few of the notes we think we can easily forget in that special moment to keep us going.

8) Saying the vows verbally

It has been proven that something that we say verbally is very hard to forget unlike what we keep to ourselves. Therefore saying these vows out loud maybe in trust of someone you believe in can really boost your moral.

9) Borrowing a few ideas from the experts

It is sometimes better to draw some collection of ideas from other people like maybe wedding priests in order to get a view of the way the most touching ideas can be addressed maybe using some actions or even a surprise say one didn’t expect.

10) Actions

Making sure that the vows are not from any other person but your own is very useful in the vows because it shows you’ve worked hard to do them for the special person.